Improve communication between dating couples
Yup, try as we might, humans aren't great at reading each other's minds.(We have a hard enough time understanding what we I used to think that if my husband had an ounce of common sense, he would know what I wanted.
It's important to find ways to connect first, before communicating, or else the communication can just generate further feelings of hurt and disconnection.Connecting through a shared activity, acknowledging the efforts the other person makes, or even just being in physical proximity may create the needed connection required to have open and effective communication.It helps to understand your partner's primary communication style.As I mentioned in a previous marriage post, one psychology theory is people have different "love languages," or ways they experience love best: through positive words, touch, quality time, etc.No matter how in tune you are with your partner, misunderstandings and communication gaffes are always possible.Here are five of the most common, yet avoidable communication mistakes that could harm a relationship. You've probably heard before that good communication is the cornerstone of a happy relationship, and, while that might be true, communication alone won't necessarily create that happiness.
Sometimes, One of the biggest mistakes is assuming that communication creates connection.
For many women, this is often true (talking helps us feel connected to others) but for many men (and for some women), this is not true.
For example, you may be the type for whom actions speak louder than words; if your partner showers you with compliments but never helps with the household chores, that's a big disconnect.
If you and your partner find yourselves always talking things out but still never getting over relationship hurdles, maybe concentrate on other, non-verbal ways to connect.
productive and necessary—the happiest couples talk with each other at least five hours a week—but as my fellow writer Thorin Klosowski details in this post about divorce, you have to make sure you're really speaking on the same wavelength and, if arguing, doing it productively.
Remember that time your significant other was supposed to do something you wanted but later you found out he or she had no clue?